The words marriage and romance sometimes mix like oil and vinegar for a lot of married couples. Just think about it for a second. When was the last time you and your spouse spent some quality time together outside of the bedroom? A lot of people will not be able to remember the last time! One of the biggest reasons that marriages start to fail, can be directly attributed to a lack of romance in the marriage. In order for any marriage to thrive and remain healthy, it is important that married couples work at keeping the romance spark alive in their relationship.
It is true love that builds a strong bond between partners. And trust comes about when you have true love for your partner. Otherwise you’ll be left hurt if you love your partner and your partner doesn’t love you (unrequited love). When partners don’t pay attention to things that express their love for one another they’ll find it difficult to have a purposeful, meaningful, stable and fulfilling relationship.
If you feel like romance has completely left the building when it comes to your marriage, then this might be because you no longer spend as much time together as you used to. No matter how busy you might be with your kids or with work, though, it would be vital to inject some romance into your marriage by spending more time together. If your marriage doesn’t have a strong foundation to build itself on, then it is no wonder why the sparks are dying down in it. To build a strong foundation, make it a point to spend quality time together and to make love as often as possible.
Ignoring the problem would place both spouses to a level that they can no longer reconcile. Take the time to listen to your spouse. Stubborn determination on upholding your point of view only would make your partner feel insignificant. Understand that both of you are equal partners in marriage, and that compromise is based on willingness to please each other. Do not escape to your busy schedule when marriage pressures you. Just answer the stress with a lingering kiss and a smile. Your partner will love you more for handling it with a sense of humor and wisdom. Yes, these simple things can put Know here back into your relationship.
How will you impress your partner on this special night? Some of the small things that men usually not pay attention to are the ones that impress women. You and your partner should bring your romance back by paying attention to small things that matter a lot. Do something different this time, something new that will awake your partner to realize the lost romance and bring it back.
For those who are attached or married, there will be a lot of sudden quarrels. Most of the time, you are blamed for something which is not your fault. This makes you very frustrated and you feel like flaring up. My advice is to be patient even though it is a tough pill to swallow. Just be patient and cool, the truth will come to light someday. In everything you do, just avoid quarrels.
To conclude, romance needs to be an essential part of any healthy marriage. Remember, keeping romance alive is not and should not be difficult. Simple things that we may take for granted such as showing daily affection are very powerful actions. Also, spending time alone together can really keep the marriage away from the mundane of the daily grind. Just remember, if you want to keep the chemistry between marriage and romance flowing, then you have to put forth the effort and show your spouse that they are still very much an important and necessary part of your life.